Waiting for Love Spell results - do’s and don’ts
Do not keep emailing, texting or phoning your ex or loved one if they are not responding. They aren’t responding for any numbers of reasons:
They are confused, angry, hurt, feeling guilty, your love spell’s task is to calm the situation and make them want to hear from you so much they will contact you. It’s fine to send them an occasional email or text, keeping the lines of communication open is wise, but constant ‘harassment’ shows desperation and looks unattractive and apart from that it could be making your ex angrier or feel even more guilty - negative emotions that will only be compounded by constant contact. Do not make your loved one feel negative.Do not discuss your love spell with others. The word occult means secret message or code, spells are supposed to be kept a secret. This is how psychic things work, you aren’t supposed to chat openly about your spell with everyone.
Do not play games. Any type of trick, game or test is a negative action aimed at manipulating your loved one - it will backfire. Honesty is the best policy, do not say things to your lover to test them, if you want to know the answer to something ask them directly.
Do not assume because your loved one has been very nasty they hate you. Some people deal with pressure and stress by taking their mood out on another. God made it so that human beings don’t just stop caring for each other, we can’t switch our emotions off after a nasty row with our loved one, if we could family units would fall apart. Rest assured the person who told you they loved you still does, a series of nasty rows can’t stop either of you caring for each other. Moods, problems etc cause even true love to be rocky at times.
Do stay positive - feeling positive about things will make you feel better. If you are nasty to someone it doesn’t make you feel good, you feel horrible and it can affect your entire day. If you see your ex or loved one and he or she is nasty, remember that is their ‘odd’ way of coping, be positive yourself, do not allow an argument to develop, your loved one will then go away feeling positive towards you instead of thinking “thank goodness our relationship has ended” because they have just experienced another negative situation with you.
Do understand even good friends can be fed up hearing about the one you love. He or she might be on your mind 24/7 but after a while your friends protective instincts will take over, they want the source of your agony erasing, so they will start telling you to “move on” - this will hurt you, “why can they not be supportive" you will say to yourself? They, remember aren’t feeling your pain, they are only seeing it and they don’t like it, and therefore start saying negative things about your loved one, before you know it there is no one you can talk to about your ex, this makes you feel even worst and down because no one is supporting you in your hour of need. It is you your friends are loyal to, therefore anyone or anything upsetting you they will turn against.
Do realise love spells work differently for different people. Spells are a craft not a science, it’s not possible to measure when results will appear, but love spells are always waiting for moments where they can manifest minor or full results. Love spells try to work as soon as possible. If nothing appears to be happening or things seem to be getting even worst, that doesn’t mean you won’t get results, it may be that changes are taking place ‘behind the scenes’, or it could be the only way for your loved one to wake up to the fact you are the only one for them is by experiencing some kind of pain. Life lessons are usually only learned when we go through some kind of hardship - when something is really painful we stop and think - why me? why has this happened? Spells can sometimes use ‘shock tactics’ (if there is no other way) but never actually hurt someone.
Do remember human beings can act in some funny ways. For example, occasionally when an ex realises they might return after all, after swearing on their life they never would, they can give you a big positive sign indicating they are thinking about returning, then vanish or ignore you and your calls. This is because they feel confused - they are shocked at how their feelings have changed, they fear they might change back and so start panicking, they need to to adjust, and will. Once they have had a good think and feel sure they won’t change their mind they will be back to you.
Do remember spells can work in ‘spurts’, or gradually, or no sign of results whatsoever until suddenly without warning full results appear when you least expected them, had perhaps given up hope!
Love spells do work and in many weird and wonderful ways!
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